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Mrs Tango tells the details of her life in the swinging lifestyle, from her first realization that she is Bi all the way through her full swap group room fun! We’ve heard from our listeners that they want to hear more from Mrs Tango (Mr Tango does tend to do a lot of the talking!) so here’s a two parter where Mrs Tango opens up and talks about the details of her swinger journey. This went long enough we’re breaking it into a Part 1 and Part 2: this is Part 2


Royalty Free Music in this Episode

Tango by Asteroidsparik

You Liked It by Linda Wood

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook



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Mrs Tango tells the details of her life in the swinging lifestyle, from her first realization that she is Bi all the way through her full swap group room fun! We’ve heard from our listeners that they want to hear more from Mrs Tango (Mr Tango does tend to do a lot of the talking!) so here’s a two parter where Mrs Tango opens up and talks about the details of her swinger journey. This went long enough we’re breaking it into a Part 1 and Part 2: this is Part 1.


Royalty Free Music in this Episode

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

This is a special episode, with contributions from some of our favorite podcasters! Once you decide to take the plunge and enter the Swinging Lifestyle, how do you actually make your first play connections? We had a couple email us and tell us that they had decided to finally make the jump into the Swinging Lifestyle, and they asked us to hold their hands and guide them. We asked the hosts of the podcasts Swinger Diaries, We Gotta Thing, Sex Uninterrupted, Sapphic Swingers, Torrid Souls, Swinging Down Under, and Average Swingers to join us in providing this couple with our advice, opinions, and suggestions. The primary goal: how to have the best chance of having a great first experience while avoiding any awkward or uncomfortable situations!

Contributing Podcasts:

Swinger Diaries https://swingerdiaries.podbean.com/

We Gotta Thing http://wegottathing.com

Sex Uninterrupted https://www.sexuninterrupted.com/su-on-the-air

Sapphic Swingers http://sapphicswingers.blogspot.com/

Torrid Souls http://www.torridsouls.com/

Swinger Down Under http://www.swingingdownunder.com/

Average Swingers https://www.averageswingers.com/

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Tonight we answer some of the questions we get from our listeners about the Swinging Lifestyle. “Why do we have a hard time connecting with other couples at huge events?” “I’m a woman and a female friend of mine said she’d like to try G/G play for the first time with me, but without her husband’s knowledge?” “If we only play once in a while, are we still considered to be part of the Lifestyle?” We’ll try to answer these and more. Also: A fun new podcast, and a HUGE new toy!

Podcasts and friends mentioned in this episode:

The Euphoria Chronicles

Average Swingers

The Swinger Diaries

We Gotta Thing

Torrid Souls

@MrsReadytoJam

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Little Question by The Old Recruits

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

Tori and Soul of Torrid Souls are different: a female couple in which both members are bisexual. They are also funny, sexy, articulate, and they have a new podcast called Torrid Souls in which they will discuss their swinging lifestyle adventures. We met them in Naughty in N’Awlins 2018 and immediately hit it off with them, and made them promise to let us interview them when they were ready to release their podcast. The podcast is out now (go find it!) and in this interview they tell us what it’s like to be a Bisexual Female couple in the Lifestyle.

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Torrid Souls

Average Swingers

Sapphic Swingers

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Bluebell by Alan Marchand

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

In this episode we talk about our fun times at Naughty in N’Awlins 2018! From sexy times with sexy couples to a fun party with dueling Sybians, it was an event to remember!

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

Sex Uninterrupted

The Swinger Diaries

We Gotta Thing

Royalty Free Music in this Episode

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

Kick Off Your Shoes by Loco Zydeco

Into the Night by Loco Zydeco

 

In this episode we interview Bunny from Sybian! She is the daughter of the man who invented the Sybian, over 30 years ago. If you listen to our podcast, you know how much we love our Sybian and the adventures we’ve had with it, especially letting ladies who’ve never experienced riding one get their first ride! We talk to Bunny about how the Sybian was invented, who were the women who first tested it, and more.

We also talk about our upcoming trip to Naughty in N’awlins 2018 (we’re on the way there now!) and yes, we are bringing our newly recovered Ruby Red Sybian with us!

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing

Average Swingers

Swinger Diaries

Sapphic Swingers

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Made for Two by Robin Stine

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

The Swinging Lifestyle is supposed to be all about acceptance, the one place where you can feel safe being honest about who you are. Yet we contend there is significant bias in the swinging Lifestyle when it comes to Bisexuality. Many women tell us that if they don’t put Bi or Bi-Curious in their profiles, they significantly less interest. Worse, many women tell us that, even if they say they are straight, they still feel pressure to play with other women, as if there is something wrong with them if they don’t enjoy F/F play.

But it’s much worse on the side of men. While Mr. Tango is not Bi, many couples have told us that, if the man says in his profile that he is Bi or Bi curious, even though he may say that is completely optional, the number of couples willing to play with them plummets. We also give all manner of signals that, while women playing with women is expected and welcome and hot, no one in the LS wants to SEE a Bi man interacting with another man. Many clubs ban that activity in public rooms, and it’s just understood in the LS that such play is not acceptable where others can see it (unless in a specially designated and segregated Bi Male Couples playroom.)

We love that our Swinging Lifestyle is so open to everyone and every kink. But we feel like we need to talk about this bias, and yes, bigotry, in the Lifestyle that prides itself on being so open and accepting.

Podcasts mentioned in this podcast:

Average Swingers

Royalty Free Music in this podcast

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Spanish Dance no 2 (Oriental) by Daniel Estrem

Living The Lie by Big Bad Sun

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

You and your partner show up to a big Lifestyle event, or a Lifestyle resort, or maybe a house party or a club. You don’t know anyone, but people in the Lifestyle are open and welcoming, right? But everyone seems to be standing or sitting with others, laughing and having a great time. You feel like you’re on the outside looking in. And you decide that the Lifestyle is filled with cliques.

But we’re like to convince you that the Lifestyle IS the most open and welcoming bunch of people you’ll ever meet. In this episode we discuss what can look like cliques in swinger events, how simple it is to feel welcome and included, and what experienced swingers can do to make sure newbies don’t feel on the outside looking in.

We’ll also talk about our trip to the Average Swingers Pub Crawl for Charity, our misadventures with a large suction cup dildo, and an appendage that looked like a large forearm (it wasn’t!) And we included a short congrats Snapshot to Mr. and Mrs. Jones of We Gotta Thing podcast for their 50th published episode.

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

We Gotta Thing

Royalty Free Music in this episode

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Lonely World by Ash Ganley

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

In this episode we talk about the top 10 Lifestyle newbie mistakes. You’ve either made them yourselves or encountered them in another couple! In addition, we ask for some help with Mrs. Tango’s first single male experience: How do you find a good single man to add to your play? We also correct our info from last podcast on the upcoming Average Swingers pub crawl.

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

Swinging Down Under

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

You Can’t Keep a Good Man Down by Mike Goudreau Jazz Band

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

Whether you are going to a lifestyle resort, a lifestyle event, a house party, or just meeting a couple for the first time that you’ve been chatting with online, you can’t help but have expectations. And if you’re not careful, those expectations can ruin what could have been a good time (even if they weren’t met!) In this episode we discuss managing expectations in the lifestyle. We also recap a visit to our house by some out of town lifestyle friends, and the GREAT time we had! And lastly, we chat about some sexy things we’d like to try in 2018.

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing

Average Swingers

Swinger Diaries

 

Royalty Free Music in this podcast:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Exceed my Expectations by Emma Wallace

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

If you’re on Twitter and follow LS posters, you have probably seen posts by a very sexy couple who go by the handle @FunItalianCpl. We were lucky enough to have met them while we were at Naughty in N’Awlins, and the four of us had a fun, sexy discussion one afternoon. They were gracious enough to allow us to air that interview on our podcast, and we think you’ll really enjoy listening to this hot couple!

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

We Gotta Thing

The Swinger Diaries

Royalty free music in this podcast:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Never Say Goodbye by Robin Stine

Tell Me a Story by Big Bad Sun

FINALLY, we get to tell you about the rest of our adventure at this years Naughty in N’awlins! This is Friday through Sunday, and once again we had enough to talk about that this is a long episode. In part 2, we discuss a very hot couple we met and how Mrs. Tango and the wife from this couple generated amazing heat (even for New Orleans!) This lady should be in the Sybian hall of fame (you’ll hear why!) We had a very unexpected but very hot encounter in the group room. And we talk about some of our favorite podcasters.

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

We Gotta Thing

Swingercast

The Unicorn Report

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Never Say Goodbye by Robin Stine

 

We had a GREAT time at this year’s Naughty in N’Awlins! Such a great time it will take two podcasts to tell you all about it! In this episode we’ll talk about Monday through Thursday, including a nice surprise in the group room on Wednesday night and a great Thursday night with a wonderful couple we are happy to call good friends. On that Thursday night, Mrs.Tango once again introduced a woman to her first Sybian experience (spoiler alert: she really, REALLY liked it!)

 

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

The Swinger Diaries

We Gotta Thing

Swingercast

The Unicorn Report

 

Royalty Free Music in this episode:
Tango by Asteroidsparik

Make it go away by Burnshee Thornside

Never Say Goodbye by Robin Stine

In this episode Mrs Tango talks about her latest sex dare from her friend. We talk about a new couple we met online, and then we attempt to answer a number of listener questions – yes, it’s scary that anyone listens to US for advice!

 

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

The Unicorn Report

The Swinger Diaries

We Gotta Thing

Swingercast

 

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

 

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Damned if you Dare by The Young Werewolves

Tell me a Story (Live) by Big Bad Sun

 

We’re FINALLY back! In this episode we talk about what turns us on (and off) when we’re looking at online profiles. Then Mrs Tango discusses her favorite sex toys, and adds another To Do to her 2017 Sex To Do List!

 

Podcasts mentioned in this podcast:

 

Average Swingers

 

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

 

So Cruel by Michael Tiernan

Shut Up and Dance by Linda Wood

It’s Over by Ash Ganley

 

We sat in front of the fire on New Year’s Eve and had a few drinks, talking about our sexual New Year’s resolutions. Mrs. Tango talks about what she has not yet experienced in our swinger adventure, and makes a “Sex To Do” list of sexual experiences she’d like to try in 2017!

 

We also decided we need a theme song for our podcast, so we introduce the tango we chose.

 

Music in this podcast:

 

Tango by asteroidsparik

 

Auld Lang Syne courtesy of https://www.ibaudio.com

 

Podcast mentioned: Sapphic Swingers

Imagine a train with restored old fashioned classic cars and filled with swingers! In this episode we interview Brian and Jill, of Tangerine’s Dream, who host what we believe to be the world’s only Swinger Train Lifestyle excursions. We conducted this interview during Naughty in N’Awlins 2016, in our room, and between the mood of NiN and copious amounts of adult beverages, we all had a great time recording (and things MIGHT have gotten a little out of hand!) We hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it!

 

We apologize for the length of time between podcasts; we had a complete computer crash and it took a long time to get all of our files and podcasts tools back!

 

Link to Tangerine’s Dream:

 

Tangerine’s Dream Home Page

 

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

 

Love U Like a Train by Burnshee Thornside

 

 

 

 

1800 swingers in a hotel takeover on Bourbon Street in New Orleans for a week! That’s Naughty in N’awlins 2016! This was our third visit to NiN and each time just gets better and better. In this podcast episode, we talk about our overall great time and several firsts: A woman we’re playing with pops off of the Sybian – twice! – we play with our first squirter – we play matchmaker to another couple who were experiencing their first NiN, and much more!

 

Other podcasts mentioned in this episode:

 

Swingercast

Average Swingers

Swinger Carousel

We Gotta Thing

 

The Swinger Train!

https://tangerinesdream.com/

 

 

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

 

Kick Off Your Shoes by Loco Zydeco

Waiting for the Train to Come In by Harry James

Faces of Friends by Mountain Sounds

 

You and your spouse/partner have done your research, read and listened to everything you could find, and now you’re going to join the swinging lifestyle. But – you’re scared! There are SO many things you worry about! What if the other swingers reject you? What if you do something wrong? What if your performance in the bedroom/playroom is sub-par? What if the other couple expects you to do things you’re not comfortable with? What if YOU aren’t attracted to the couple you met on the swinger board and who are now sitting across from you at the bar? What if….. what if…. what if……..

 

These (and other!) fears about the lifestyle are common, normal, and something most of us have experienced. Mr. and Mrs. Tango discuss all of these and tell you how we have faced them, and why most of these shouldn’t be a barrier to you sticking your toe (or whatever!) into the lifestyle.

 

Also – Mrs. Tango describes a cool new Kegel exerciser, the kGoal, and how she uses it to play video games with her kegel muscles! You can get a 15% discount if you use the discount code 2TANGO on their website:

kGoal

And we are heading to Naughty in N’awlins! We’d love you to email us if you’re going to be there!

 

Great Royalty Free Music in this episode:

 

Red Distortion – Noise HiFi

Good Thing Going On – Ash Ganly

Everybody Getting Freaky – The Old Recruits

Love Dog – Big Bad Sun

 

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

 

We Gotta Thing

Swingercast

 

email us at by clicking here

 

 

 

 

 

A chat with our swinger friends Nick and Nora over dinner and drinks, sharing a lot of laughs and stories!This one is a bit long but we had so much fun we couldn’t stop chatting.

 

Nick and Nora talk about their adventures as swingers, both hot and hilarious. They talk about how they met, and we laugh about how long it took us to finally get together. Nora talks about her pre-married life as a unicorn in the Lifestyle, and provides some tips for people trying to connect with a Unicorn they see on a swingers web site. They also discuss both good encounters and some that were not so good (but funny – at least in hindsight!) We also recall Nora’s first ride on a Sybian (ours!)

 

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Swingercast

Swap Fu

 

Music:

Santa Take the Night Off – Emma Wallace

Let’s Have Some Fun Mrs. Clause – Emma Wallace

We FINALLY have the play date with the swinger couple we met online, and it was worth the wait!  We also talk about that point in a swinger date where you transition from talk to play, and ask, why does it often feel so awkward? Mrs. Tango thinks Jay of Average Swingers showing his soft side is hot, and we need to find a theme song, but since it’s Halloween we chose music appropriate for the evening.

 

Great podcasters mentioned in this episode:

 

Average Swingers

The Hidden Swing

 

A Cool Couple’s Swinger Club:

Club Euphoria

 

Sex Games Mentioned:

Onyx

iBlush

The Game of Lifestyle

 

Royalty Free Music used in this Podcast:

 

Halloween Night by Monk Turner

Took Me By Surprise by Burnshee Thornside

Rock and Roll Halloween by Bobby Bare Jr.

 

 

Our trip to Naughty in N’awlins 2015 resulted in a number of new “firsts” in our swinging lifestyle adventure, including our first full swap! And our second!

 

We also had a wonderful time being a “first” for another couple who were new to swinging, but you certainly couldn’t tell it!

 

Podcasters mentioned in the Podcaster Q&A:

 

Swingercast (where you can find the roundtable episode)

Average Swingers

We Gotta Thing

Swinger Diaries

John of Blissbringers

Swap Fu

Los Swingers

 

Royalty Free Music in Episode 6

Good Thing Going On by Ash Ganley

Till Dawn by Robin Grey

Tell Me a Story by Big Bad Sun

 

We have been in the swinging lifestyle for a year now, and we want to talk about the misconceptions we had and what surprised us about what a Swinger is and what swinging is all about. And where are all those orgies we thought would be everywhere???

 

Also, we’ll answer some listeners emails, and talk about how Mrs. Tango is responsible for us probably only getting one vote in the Annual Lifestyle Awards!

 

Music in this episode, licensed from BMI:

 

You Make Love Fun – Fleetwood Mac

I Got You (I Feel Fine) – James Brown

Back to New Orleans – Joe Barry

 

 

Our experience swinging with 750 swinger couples at 2014’s Naughty in N’awlins lifestyle event! This one is a little long, we had a lot to talk about! Including why we had to re-record it, our Chicago friend who dumped a mob princess, the curious site of a line of men in red dresses in front of the urinals in the hotel bathroom, our first six-some, and how, yeah, it CAN be a little overwhelming at first to be at a convention with so many swinger couples.

 

Mentioned in this podcast:

 

Sexy dancing by Jay of Average Swingers

Allie of Swingercast making me realize there is nothing in a red dress to hide a man’s “happiness” when being sandwiched between two sexy women on the dance floor!

Naughty in N’Awlins

 

Music, all licensed from BMI

Drop Me Off in New Orleans – Kermit Ruffin

The Godfather Theme

Down in New Orleans – Jimmy Nalls

Sweet Home New Orleans – Dr. John

Our very first – and second – swinger club visit! Our swinging adventure’s next step. We had a GREAT time the first visit, and a really good time the second visit. And learned that a swingers club can have very different “feels” on different nights.

 

We also discuss the date we were supposed to have the night we recorded this; sometimes connecting with another couple, even when both couples REALLY want to connect, can be hard!

 

Music this episode, all licensed from BMI:

 

Everybody Talks – Neon Trees

Love Shack – The B-52s

Following our teaser at the end of Episode 1, we meet a couple who answered our online profile question: Who wants to help a nice Bi Wifey fulfill her G/G fantasy? And they do! What we expected to be a simple get to know ya meet at a vanilla bar ended up with us going to their house, and the next thing you know Mrs. Tango and the other wife is having a REALLY good time on the sofa! We then describe our second date with them, but this time we know what’s going to happen! Well – we THINK we do! 🙂

 

On our photos page, Mrs. Tango getting ready for the first meeting with the couple in the podcast, wearing the see through black top we mentioned.

 

Mentioned in this episode: Some of our favorite podcasts, including one we didn’t talk about last time, the amazing Swap Fu!

 

Note – we promise to work on the sound quality before Episode 3; we’ve got the right equipment, just learning to use it!

 

Swingercast

We Gotta Thing

The Hidden Swing

Average Swingers

Swap Fu

 

Music:

 

Licensed from Magnatune.com

I’ve Got a Secret – Robin Stine

 

Licensed from BMI

Just My Imagination – The Temptations

Damn, Girl – Justin Timberlake

Welcome to our adventures as we explore the swinging lifestyle! In our first podcast, we’ll talk about how our efforts to keep our sex life fun and fresh resulted in accidentally stumbling into the lifestyle. We’ll talk about who we are, how Mrs. Tango’s dares contest with a friend resulted in her playing with her Bi side and her kissing contests, and our fun time at Fantasy Fest. We’ll discuss how we had NO idea we were with a Krewe who were swingers, and the recurring theme of “I could never do THAT!” anxieties melting away when surrounded by people who are doing “THAT” and cool about it. Mrs. Tango shares why letting someone stick a needle through her nipples was a GOOD thing (and we’re not into BDSM – at least not now! 😉 ) and how that resulted in a couple chasing us down in a bar parking lot and pulling back the curtain on the whole world of swingers. Which led to us setting up a profile on a swinger web site, couples who were WAY too much into their horses on their profile, and the connection that introduced us into this new world!

 

Mentioned in the podcast:

 

Swingercast

We Gotta Thing

The Hidden Swing

Average Swingers

 

Music:

I’ve Got a Secret – Robin Stine

You Can’t Dance – Burnshee Thornside

I’m Dumb – Emma Wallace

Rights to above music obtained from www.magnatune.com

 

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