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The Swinging Lifestyle is supposed to be all about acceptance, the one place where you can feel safe being honest about who you are. Yet we contend there is significant bias in the swinging Lifestyle when it comes to Bisexuality. Many women tell us that if they don’t put Bi or Bi-Curious in their profiles, they significantly less interest. Worse, many women tell us that, even if they say they are straight, they still feel pressure to play with other women, as if there is something wrong with them if they don’t enjoy F/F play.

But it’s much worse on the side of men. While Mr. Tango is not Bi, many couples have told us that, if the man says in his profile that he is Bi or Bi curious, even though he may say that is completely optional, the number of couples willing to play with them plummets. We also give all manner of signals that, while women playing with women is expected and welcome and hot, no one in the LS wants to SEE a Bi man interacting with another man. Many clubs ban that activity in public rooms, and it’s just understood in the LS that such play is not acceptable where others can see it (unless in a specially designated and segregated Bi Male Couples playroom.)

We love that our Swinging Lifestyle is so open to everyone and every kink. But we feel like we need to talk about this bias, and yes, bigotry, in the Lifestyle that prides itself on being so open and accepting.

Podcasts mentioned in this podcast:

Average Swingers

Royalty Free Music in this podcast

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Spanish Dance no 2 (Oriental) by Daniel Estrem

Living The Lie by Big Bad Sun

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

You and your partner show up to a big Lifestyle event, or a Lifestyle resort, or maybe a house party or a club. You don’t know anyone, but people in the Lifestyle are open and welcoming, right? But everyone seems to be standing or sitting with others, laughing and having a great time. You feel like you’re on the outside looking in. And you decide that the Lifestyle is filled with cliques.

But we’re like to convince you that the Lifestyle IS the most open and welcoming bunch of people you’ll ever meet. In this episode we discuss what can look like cliques in swinger events, how simple it is to feel welcome and included, and what experienced swingers can do to make sure newbies don’t feel on the outside looking in.

We’ll also talk about our trip to the Average Swingers Pub Crawl for Charity, our misadventures with a large suction cup dildo, and an appendage that looked like a large forearm (it wasn’t!) And we included a short congrats Snapshot to Mr. and Mrs. Jones of We Gotta Thing podcast for their 50th published episode.

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

We Gotta Thing

Royalty Free Music in this episode

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Lonely World by Ash Ganley

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

In this episode we talk about the top 10 Lifestyle newbie mistakes. You’ve either made them yourselves or encountered them in another couple! In addition, we ask for some help with Mrs. Tango’s first single male experience: How do you find a good single man to add to your play? We also correct our info from last podcast on the upcoming Average Swingers pub crawl.

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

Swinging Down Under

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

You Can’t Keep a Good Man Down by Mike Goudreau Jazz Band

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

Whether you are going to a lifestyle resort, a lifestyle event, a house party, or just meeting a couple for the first time that you’ve been chatting with online, you can’t help but have expectations. And if you’re not careful, those expectations can ruin what could have been a good time (even if they weren’t met!) In this episode we discuss managing expectations in the lifestyle. We also recap a visit to our house by some out of town lifestyle friends, and the GREAT time we had! And lastly, we chat about some sexy things we’d like to try in 2018.

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing

Average Swingers

Swinger Diaries

 

Royalty Free Music in this podcast:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Exceed my Expectations by Emma Wallace

Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

If you’re on Twitter and follow LS posters, you have probably seen posts by a very sexy couple who go by the handle @FunItalianCpl. We were lucky enough to have met them while we were at Naughty in N’Awlins, and the four of us had a fun, sexy discussion one afternoon. They were gracious enough to allow us to air that interview on our podcast, and we think you’ll really enjoy listening to this hot couple!

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

We Gotta Thing

The Swinger Diaries

Royalty free music in this podcast:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Never Say Goodbye by Robin Stine

Tell Me a Story by Big Bad Sun

FINALLY, we get to tell you about the rest of our adventure at this years Naughty in N’awlins! This is Friday through Sunday, and once again we had enough to talk about that this is a long episode. In part 2, we discuss a very hot couple we met and how Mrs. Tango and the wife from this couple generated amazing heat (even for New Orleans!) This lady should be in the Sybian hall of fame (you’ll hear why!) We had a very unexpected but very hot encounter in the group room. And we talk about some of our favorite podcasters.

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

We Gotta Thing

Swingercast

The Unicorn Report

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Never Say Goodbye by Robin Stine

 

We had a GREAT time at this year’s Naughty in N’Awlins! Such a great time it will take two podcasts to tell you all about it! In this episode we’ll talk about Monday through Thursday, including a nice surprise in the group room on Wednesday night and a great Thursday night with a wonderful couple we are happy to call good friends. On that Thursday night, Mrs.Tango once again introduced a woman to her first Sybian experience (spoiler alert: she really, REALLY liked it!)

 

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

Average Swingers

The Swinger Diaries

We Gotta Thing

Swingercast

The Unicorn Report

 

Royalty Free Music in this episode:
Tango by Asteroidsparik

Make it go away by Burnshee Thornside

Never Say Goodbye by Robin Stine

In this episode Mrs Tango talks about her latest sex dare from her friend. We talk about a new couple we met online, and then we attempt to answer a number of listener questions – yes, it’s scary that anyone listens to US for advice!

 

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:

The Unicorn Report

The Swinger Diaries

We Gotta Thing

Swingercast

 

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

 

Tango by Asteroidsparik

Damned if you Dare by The Young Werewolves

Tell me a Story (Live) by Big Bad Sun

 

We’re FINALLY back! In this episode we talk about what turns us on (and off) when we’re looking at online profiles. Then Mrs Tango discusses her favorite sex toys, and adds another To Do to her 2017 Sex To Do List!

 

Podcasts mentioned in this podcast:

 

Average Swingers

 

Royalty Free Music in this episode:

 

So Cruel by Michael Tiernan

Shut Up and Dance by Linda Wood

It’s Over by Ash Ganley

 

We sat in front of the fire on New Year’s Eve and had a few drinks, talking about our sexual New Year’s resolutions. Mrs. Tango talks about what she has not yet experienced in our swinger adventure, and makes a “Sex To Do” list of sexual experiences she’d like to try in 2017!

 

We also decided we need a theme song for our podcast, so we introduce the tango we chose.

 

Music in this podcast:

 

Tango by asteroidsparik

 

Auld Lang Syne courtesy of https://www.ibaudio.com

 

Podcast mentioned: Sapphic Swingers

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