Episode 10: Naughty in N’awlins 2016  0

1800 swingers in a hotel takeover on Bourbon Street in New Orleans for a week! That’s Naughty in N’awlins 2016! This was our third visit to NiN and each time just gets better and better. In this podcast episode, we talk about our overall great time and several firsts: A woman we’re playing with pops off of the Sybian – twice! – we play with our first squirter – we play matchmaker to another couple who were experiencing their first NiN, and much more!


Other podcasts mentioned in this episode:



Average Swingers

Swinger Carousel

We Gotta Thing


The Swinger Train!




Royalty Free Music in this episode:


Kick Off Your Shoes by Loco Zydeco

Waiting for the Train to Come In by Harry James

Faces of Friends by Mountain Sounds


Episode 9: Newbie Fears of the Swinging Lifestyle  0

You and your spouse/partner have done your research, read and listened to everything you could find, and now you’re going to join the swinging lifestyle. But – you’re scared! There are SO many things you worry about! What if the other swingers reject you? What if you do something wrong? What if your performance in the bedroom/playroom is sub-par? What if the other couple expects you to do things you’re not comfortable with? What if YOU aren’t attracted to the couple you met on the swinger board and who are now sitting across from you at the bar? What if….. what if…. what if……..


These (and other!) fears about the lifestyle are common, normal, and something most of us have experienced. Mr. and Mrs. Tango discuss all of these and tell you how we have faced them, and why most of these shouldn’t be a barrier to you sticking your toe (or whatever!) into the lifestyle.


Also – Mrs. Tango describes a cool new Kegel exerciser, the kGoal, and how she uses it to play video games with her kegel muscles! You can get a 15% discount if you use the discount code 2TANGO on their website:


And we are heading to Naughty in N’awlins! We’d love you to email us if you’re going to be there!


Great Royalty Free Music in this episode:


Red Distortion – Noise HiFi

Good Thing Going On – Ash Ganly

Everybody Getting Freaky – The Old Recruits

Love Dog – Big Bad Sun


Podcasts mentioned in this episode:


We Gotta Thing



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Episode 8 A Chat With Our Swinger Friends Nick and Nora  0

A chat with our swinger friends Nick and Nora over dinner and drinks, sharing a lot of laughs and stories!This one is a bit long but we had so much fun we couldn’t stop chatting.


Nick and Nora talk about their adventures as swingers, both hot and hilarious. They talk about how they met, and we laugh about how long it took us to finally get together. Nora talks about her pre-married life as a unicorn in the Lifestyle, and provides some tips for people trying to connect with a Unicorn they see on a swingers web site. They also discuss both good encounters and some that were not so good (but funny – at least in hindsight!) We also recall Nora’s first ride on a Sybian (ours!)


Podcasts mentioned in this episode:


Swap Fu



Santa Take the Night Off – Emma Wallace

Let’s Have Some Fun Mrs. Clause – Emma Wallace

Episode 7: Our Jinxed Date Happens  0

We FINALLY have the play date with the swinger couple we met online, and it was worth the wait!Β  We also talk about that point in a swinger date where you transition from talk to play, and ask, why does it often feel so awkward? Mrs. Tango thinks Jay of Average Swingers showing his soft side is hot, and we need to find a theme song, but since it’s Halloween we chose music appropriate for the evening.


Great podcasters mentioned in this episode:


Average Swingers

The Hidden Swing


A Cool Couple’s Swinger Club:

Club Euphoria


Sex Games Mentioned:



The Game of Lifestyle


Royalty Free Music used in this Podcast:


Halloween Night by Monk Turner

Took Me By Surprise by Burnshee Thornside

Rock and Roll Halloween by Bobby Bare Jr.



Episode 6: Naughty in N’awlins 2015  0

Our trip to Naughty in N’awlins 2015 resulted in a number of new “firsts” in our swinging lifestyle adventure, including our first full swap! And our second!


We also had a wonderful time being a “first” for another couple who were new to swinging, but you certainly couldn’t tell it!


Podcasters mentioned in the Podcaster Q&A:


Swingercast (where you can find the roundtable episode)

Average Swingers

We Gotta Thing

Swinger Diaries

John of Blissbringers

Swap Fu

Los Swingers


Royalty Free Music in Episode 6

Good Thing Going On by Ash Ganley

Till Dawn by Robin Grey

Tell Me a Story by Big Bad Sun


Episode 5: Where are all the Orgies?  0

We have been in the swinging lifestyle for a year now, and we want to talk about the misconceptions we had and what surprised us about what a Swinger is and what swinging is all about. And where are all those orgies we thought would be everywhere???


Also, we’ll answer some listeners emails, and talk about how Mrs. Tango is responsible for us probably only getting one vote in the Annual Lifestyle Awards!


Music in this episode, licensed from BMI:


You Make Love Fun – Fleetwood Mac

I Got You (I Feel Fine) – James Brown

Back to New Orleans – Joe Barry



Episode 4: Naughty in N’awlins 2014  0

Our experience swinging with 750 swinger couples at 2014’s Naughty in N’awlins lifestyle event! This one is a little long, we had a lot to talk about! Including why we had to re-record it, our Chicago friend who dumped a mob princess, the curious site of a line of men in red dresses in front of the urinals in the hotel bathroom, our first six-some, and how, yeah, it CAN be a little overwhelming at first to be at a convention with so many swinger couples.


Mentioned in this podcast:


Sexy dancing by Jay of Average Swingers

Allie of Swingercast making me realize there is nothing in a red dress to hide a man’s “happiness” when being sandwiched between two sexy women on the dance floor!

Naughty in N’Awlins


Music, all licensed from BMI

Drop Me Off in New Orleans – Kermit Ruffin

The Godfather Theme

Down in New Orleans – Jimmy Nalls

Sweet Home New Orleans – Dr. John

Episode 3: Our First Swinger Club Visit  0

Our very first – and second – swinger club visit! Our swinging adventure’s next step. We had a GREAT time the first visit, and a really good time the second visit. And learned that a swingers club can have very different “feels” on different nights.


We also discuss the date we were supposed to have the night we recorded this; sometimes connecting with another couple, even when both couples REALLY want to connect, can be hard!


Music this episode, all licensed from BMI:


Everybody Talks – Neon Trees

Love Shack – The B-52s

Episode 2: Mrs. Tango Enjoys Her First G/G!  0

Following our teaser at the end of Episode 1, we meet a couple who answered our online profile question: Who wants to help a nice Bi Wifey fulfill her G/G fantasy? And they do! What we expected to be a simple get to know ya meet at a vanilla bar ended up with us going to their house, and the next thing you know Mrs. Tango and the other wife is having a REALLY good time on the sofa! We then describe our second date with them, but this time we know what’s going to happen! Well – we THINK we do! πŸ™‚


On our photos page, Mrs. Tango getting ready for the first meeting with the couple in the podcast, wearing the see through black top we mentioned.


Mentioned in this episode: Some of our favorite podcasts, including one we didn’t talk about last time, the amazing Swap Fu!


Note – we promise to work on the sound quality before Episode 3; we’ve got the right equipment, just learning to use it!



We Gotta Thing

The Hidden Swing

Average Swingers

Swap Fu




Licensed from Magnatune.com

I’ve Got a Secret – Robin Stine


Licensed from BMI

Just My Imagination – The Temptations

Damn, Girl – Justin Timberlake

Episode 1: A Couple Stumbles Into the Lifestyle!  0

Welcome to our adventures as we explore the swinging lifestyle! In our first podcast, we’ll talk about how our efforts to keep our sex life fun and fresh resulted in accidentally stumbling into the lifestyle. We’ll talk about who we are, how Mrs. Tango’s dares contest with a friend resulted in her playing with her Bi side and her kissing contests, and our fun time at Fantasy Fest. We’ll discuss how we had NO idea we were with a Krewe who were swingers, and the recurring theme of “I could never do THAT!” anxieties melting away when surrounded by people who are doing “THAT” and cool about it. Mrs. Tango shares why letting someone stick a needle through her nipples was a GOOD thing (and we’re not into BDSM – at least not now! πŸ˜‰ ) and how that resulted in a couple chasing us down in a bar parking lot and pulling back the curtain on the whole world of swingers. Which led to us setting up a profile on a swinger web site, couples who were WAY too much into their horses on their profile, and the connection that introduced us into this new world!


Mentioned in the podcast:



We Gotta Thing

The Hidden Swing

Average Swingers



I’ve Got a Secret – Robin Stine

You Can’t Dance – Burnshee Thornside

I’m Dumb – Emma Wallace

Rights to above music obtained from www.magnatune.com